“Jesus wept.” –John11:35
God the Son, eternal in
power and glory, took on flesh, dwelt among us, and wept. Lazarus had died. He
was moved deeply and troubled upon seeing Lazarus’ sister Mary and others
weeping (John 11:33). I take comfort that when I am sad I have a great high
priest in Jesus Christ who wept and is able to sympathize with me (Hebrews 4:15). Why? He is without sin. I can weep with hope for the sinless Christ sympathizes with me.
So, a simple prayer is heard
by my Father in heaven: God, I’m sad.
Perhaps I tell God like the Psalmist, “all night I flood my bed with weeping
and drench my couch with tears” (Psalm 6:6). I look for my God to answer with
comfort, “I am weary with my crying out; my throat is parched. My eyes grow dim
with waiting for my God” (Psalm 69:3). I know that “my groaning is not hidden
from You” (Psalm 38:9).
I know how I feel, but in
sadness my faith needs reminding from God’s never changing, never fading Word.
1) Remind me what I know when
I feel sad.
When we see someone we care
about become sad, we feel drawn to help. True help comes in unchanging truth
God reveals in His everlasting Word. When you are sad, Christian, you need
reminding of what you know to be true.
God reveals Himself to be an
emotional being. Our God takes pleasure, gets angry, gets jealous, grieves,
hates, loves, and even rejoices. He took on flesh and wept. He took on flesh
and endured the suffering and shame of the cross for the joy that was set
before Him. God’s emotions are perfect, holy emotions.
I know my heart is tainted
with sin. Corrupted. So, temptations visit me in my sadness. I need reminders
of God’s everlasting truth when tempted to despair, or become angry, jealous in
my sadness.
Dear sad reader, remember
what God has done. Sadness isn’t a sin. We become sad at the state of this
fallen world. Angry, perhaps. And it all comes with longing for God’s kingdom.
A kingdom which enjoys eternal joy in God’s presence with sin and death
defeated.
Another reminder of truth is
that God is with us. He is not absent from us in our pain. He draws near to the
brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). Puritan William Bridge reminds us, “Thus does God,
with whom are reserves of mercies, reserve His sweetest consolations for the
time of our sourest afflictions, and temper the one with the other in most fit
proportion” (A Lifting for the Downcast,
Page 53).
Feeding your faith with
truth of the unseen you know is true is not to be compared to modern medicine
where pain can be relieved immediately. I KNOW Jesus raised from the dead, and
I know one day He will wipe away every tear from my face. I am still sad, but
it is not a sadness without hope.
Dear sad soul, remind your
downcast heart of truth. “Hope in God; for I shall again praise him, my
salvation and my God” (Psalm 42:11).
2) Remind me what is ahead
when I remain sad.
We may be sad here along
with the groanings of all creation for redemption, but “I consider that the
sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is
to be revealed to us” (Romans 8:18).
RC Sproul said, “Ultimately
there are no tragedies for the people of God. God has promised by Himself that
all things that happen in this world – all pain, all suffering, all tragedies –
are but for a moment and God works in and through those events for the good of
those who endure them…Tragedy for the Christian is temporary. Never permanent.”
I know what work the Lord
has begun in me. I know He will complete this good work at the day of Jesus
Christ (Philippians 1:6). However, today I am sad as sin still drags souls from
enjoying God and death still takes loved ones. Christians may not weep like the
world without hope does, but we weep.
Yet, Paul commands us to “rejoice
in the Lord always” (Philippians 4:4).
There is joy in the Lord when we are sad. There is the key: joy is in
the Lord. Such joy cannot be obtained by will or thought, but is a gift
from God (Romans 15:13). How precious is such everlasting joy in the Lord,
especially when we are sad!
I will never forget the first time my wife and I attended a Baptist church
just outside of Richmond, Kentucky. An elderly man came to sing a special. He
had been a widow for a number of years and sang with a smile on his face and
tears in his eyes, “I sing because I’m happy, I sing because I’m free! For His
eye is on the sparrow, and I know He watches me!”
We may have tears of sadness
and longing here, but we have hope of the future God has promised us. And He is
good to gift to us joy in such foretastes of eternity along our pathway here.
What is this joy God gifts
to us? Our Triune God has love in Himself. The Father, Son, and Spirit loves.
John Piper writes, “It is an admiring, delighting, exulting love. It is Joy.
The Holy Spirit is God’s Joy in God.” He continues, “This means that Joy is at
the heart of reality. God is Love, means most deeply, God is Joy in God.”
When we are sad, our joy in
God remains by the power of the Holy Spirit in us. He produces fruit in us,
among which is joy. Such joy now is looking forward to the coming glory which
cannot be compared to this momentary suffering of sadness here.
As we sojourners and exiles
make our way home heavenward, God’s presence with us, His mercies to us, is a
comfort.
In Revelation 6, those
martyred cry out to the Lord, “How long, O Lord?” They cry for God’s justice,
for God’s justice in Christ’s return means He will right every wrong. The Lord
gives them each a “white robe and told to rest a little longer” (Revelation 6:11). The God of all comfort in Christ our Lord comforts those who cried this
prayer.
The
sharp pains of grief here are comforted in the Savior’s love for us as we, too,
await that coming Day. “After you have suffered a little while, the God of all
grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore,
confirm, strengthen, and establish you” (I Peter 5:10).
Only
a little while longer, dear mourning Christian. Our Savior will return for us.
He will restore. He will right every wrong. He will wipe away every tear.
Rejoice for the coming day in tears. “May the God of hope fill you with all joy
and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound
in hope” (Romans 15:13).
God, I am sad. I trust in Your
promises in Christ. I trust in what You have revealed what is ahead for me. Yet,
I am sad. Remind me of Your promises, of Your gospel. Remind me once again of
what is ahead. Draw near to me in my sadness, and draw me nearer to You, that I
may abound in hope. In Jesus’ name. Amen.